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The key to a successful themed wedding is consistency: the dress, the flowers, the food and yes, the music are all things to consider when creating a certain look or atmosphere. Expert wedding DJ, Mark van den Berg of Mighty Fine Entertainment is on hand to let us in on his top tips for creating the soundtrack to a themed wedding.

Consider whether themed music is viable all night:

Every couple is different and so every themed wedding is different. For example, if you’re having a goth wedding, it may be a bit of a stretch to expect your nan to go nuts for Marylin Manson for an entire evening. However, a sixties-themed wedding could easily lay the foundations for a playlist to bridge the generational gap and keep people on their feet all night.

Andaz - Lights & Smoke

Timing is everything:

A really great DJ will have a large music collection and the knowledge to match, and will undoubtedly be able to put together a themed playlist of any kind. However, while it’s important that the music is consistent with your theme to create the right ambiance, don’t lose sight of the fact that you’re throwing a party – and people will want to get up and dance to tunes that they know.

With that in mind, consider the timing of your themed music. For example, have your themed playlist set the mood for your drinks reception and dinner, and include aspects of it in your evening party while still playing the classics that people will want to jump out of their seats for.


Get people involved:

If you feel very strongly that you only want music from a certain theme or era at your wedding, bear in mind that it may not be everyone’s cup of tea. One way to get everyone involved could be to teach them a dance or have someone leading the dancing for that particular theme. For example, if you’re having a Jewish wedding, somebody could lead the circle dance (or “hora”), if you’re having a twenties-inspired wedding, bring in a dance teacher to show people how to do the Charleston. If your theme or music is very niche or is unfamiliar to some, then make the extra effort to get them up and dancing so nobody has an excuse to sit out.


Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want:

Your DJ is there to help create your dream day. Any experienced DJ will have had every request under the sun. For example, at Mighty Fine Entertainment, we’ve set up specific playlists for a huge variety of weddings, from a Cockney playlist for a London couple to specific 60s, 70s 80s and 90s lists as well as indie, old school house, 20s & 30s swing, reggae, and the list goes on. A great DJ will know just how to work with you to incorporate your themed music into the evening and still create a great party atmosphere, so do it your way and dance the night away.

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About Mighty Fine Entertainment – Established in 2006 by internationally acclaimed DJ, Mark van den Berg (aka Mark Luvdup),  Mark – together with his team of hand-picked professional DJs, all of whom have more than 25 years’ experience – Mighty Fine Entertainment is the leading DJ hire and mobile disco provider in London and the South-East.

Mighty Fine Entertainment has won several prestigious awards including:

  • “Best Wedding DJs in the UK” at the 2013 Wedding Industry Awards, by past client vote.
  • Mark van den Berg (aka Mark Luvdup) has been voted one of the best 25 DJs in the world

Mighty Fine Entertainment operates throughout Greater London and the South-East, including Buckinghamshire, Berkshire, Hertfordshire, Surrey, Kent, Essex and West Sussex.


You can contact Mighty Fine Entertainment through their website, find them on Facebook, and follow them on Twitter.

Be happy with what you have and are, be generous with both, and you won’t have to hunt for happiness.

William E. Gladstone

When I worked in a travel agency a few years ago honeymoons were a large part of our business, mostly with couples wanting luxury beach type getaways in order to chill out after the stress of the wedding. One couple however wanted a ski holiday though – my boss at the time couldn’t understand the desire for snow and cold, but I thought it was a great idea! Think Alpine chalets, gluhwein in a mountain top cafe/restaurant, perhaps horsedrawn sleigh rides, and of course, open fires – cold can be romantic!


Ski Safari Logo

For many couples a honeymoon is regarded as the most important holiday they will ever book, and where to go is way up high on the priority list. Classic honeymoon destinations such as luxury all-inclusive in the Maldives or Kenyan safaris will continue to have unfaltering appeal but being that little bit more adventurous can open up a whole new world of options. As more couples are getting married during the winter months, more seasonal destination choices can be discovered. If you are short of time substitute a stay in Venice or Paris with a short ski break to Arosa, swap a Kenyan safari with a Swedish Arctic adventure and if you need sunshine as well as snow opt for one of the ultimate combinations such as Aspen and Barbados or Whistler and Hawaii. Take a look further at some of the options offered by tailor-made ski specialist Ski Safari:


Blessed with stunning panoramic views, the Swiss resort of Arosa makes a perfect honeymoon getaway for those short of time. Home to one of the most superb spas, the 5*+ Tschuggen Grand provides all the ingredients needed to help you truly relax after your wedding, with a comprehensive spa menu, an outdoor relaxation pool, a meditation room, a chill-out lounge with fireplace and its own private gondola up the mountain. The big news in Arosa this season is the new gondola link connecting the resorts of Arosa and Lenzerheide, giving an overall new combined skiing area of 225km and in doing so making it one of the largest ski areas in Switzerland.
How much?

This exclusive offer for Ski Safari customers offers a stay of 4 nights and you only pay for 3 nights. 4 nights B&B at the 5* Tschuggen Grand in Arosa starts from £895 per person, based on 2 sharing and including SWISS flights and 2nd class rail/bus transfers. Valid on selected dates through to April 2014, excluding 22nd Dec 2013 – 9th Jan 2014. Call Ski Safari on 01273 224 062 or visit


If you want to push the boundaries further, then a 10 night Åre and the Arctic adventure will satiate most appetites hungry for adventure and offers one of the most magical Northern Lights experiences. This trip of a lifetime begins in Åre, Scandinavia’s premier mountain resort, where passionate winter sports enthusiasts can ease their way in gently with a few days skiing. After a couple of days take the overnight sleeper train 200km north of the Arctic circle to Riksgränsen, the world’s northernmost ski destination and one of the best places to see the Northern Lights.  Inspiring scenery and incredible snow coupled with immense heli-skiing terrain, the size of Holland, pushes Riksgränsen to the top of the must-ski list. After heli-skiing, the next overnight adventure stop is at the original Swedish ICEHOTEL, where you can try a few new experiences such as ice sculpting, snowmobiling, ice carving or reindeer sledding.

Arctic Ski Safari

How much?
A 10 night holiday starts from £1699 per person, including B&B accommodation in 3* and 4* properties, flights and transfers. To upgrade and stay at the 5*Copper Mountain Lodge in Åre and the 4* Meteorologen Lodge in Riksgränsen starts from £2198 per person, including flights and transfers. Call Ski Safari on 01273 224 068 or visit


If you can’t decide between a winter honeymoon on the slopes or relaxing in the sunshine by the beach then a Ski & Sun honeymoon offers the best of both worlds. Ski Safari’s most popular combination is Whistler and Hawaii. Undeniably a must-ski resort thanks to its awesome skiing terrain, Whistler also boasts superior accommodation and an energetic village vibe. As honeymoons tend to be booked as soon as the wedding date is set couples can benefit from some fantastic early booking offers available until August and further discounts until mid-November, with up to 70% off in luxury hotels such as the Four Seasons. Swap the crisp mountain air and white snow for the white sandy beaches and tropical sunshine of Hawaii. The second largest of the Hawaiian Islands, Maui is known to locals as ‘no ka oi’ (the best) and it is easy to understand why. There can be few better places to soak up the sunshine and relax but equally more energetic honeymooners can discover a host of activities, including surfing, windsurfing, kitesurfing, diving, snorkelling, hiking, whale watching and more.


How much?

A 14 night package starts from £2150 per person, including accommodation in 4* hotels, flights and transfers. To upgrade to luxury hotels starts from £2595 per person staying at the 5* Four Seasons in Whistler and the 5* Hyatt Regency in Maui. Call Ski Safari on 01273 224 060 or visit


For couples with a sense of fun and a spirit of adventure, the Utah and Las Vegas Safari offers one of the best value honeymoon packages. The diversity offered on this trip is what makes it such a unique and memorable choice, combining some of the best skiing and boarding in Utah with a sensational road trip through the US national parks, before rounding off with a couple of nights in Las Vegas. Spend your first few days of married life exploring the vast terrain and amazing snow conditions of Park City, Deer Valley and Canyons, all available on one ski pass. Next embark on a road trip spending a few nights split between Bryce Canyon and Zion National Park and witness the vast geological difference between the two. Travelling in winter time makes the scenery even more dramatic with snow contrasting with the red of the hoodoo rock and the green of the pine trees. The weather gets warmer as you head south to Las Vegas and there are added adventures to try such as a drive through Monument Valley, mountain biking in Moab or a helicopter flight over the Grand Canyon.

How much?

A 14 night package starts from £1325 per person, including accommodation in 3* hotels, flights and transfers. To upgrade to luxury hotels starts from £2750 per person staying at the 5* Hotel Park City in a Cottage Suite with private hot-tub and 5* The Aria in Las Vegas, and the 3* Best Western in Bryce Canyon and 4* Cable Mountain Lodge in Zion. Call Ski Safari on 01273 224 060 or visit


The Caribbean is up there as one of the most popular honeymoon destinations and combining it with a ski break in Colorado creates an added twist. For the ultimate in big name resorts, start in Aspen, where all superlatives combine together to create a superpower that few resorts can match. This world-famous resort is one of the most attractive in Colorado, offering some of America’s most luxurious accommodation in Aspen town. After living it up in Aspen add a bit of contrast to your honeymoon and spend some time on one of the Caribbean’s most popular islands, laid-back Barbados. With winter temperatures averaging 25°C there will be plenty of time to relax in the crystal clear waters and on the beautiful sandy beaches.

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How much?

A 14 night package starts from £2150 per person, including accommodation in 4* hotels, flights and transfers. To upgrade to luxury hotels starts from £3150 per person staying at the 5* Hotel Jerome in Aspen and the 5* Hilton Barbados Resort in Barbados. Call Ski Safari on 01273 224 060 or visit


If you love powder skiing as much as you love each other then a honeymoon down the Powder Highway is a sure way to guarantee a marriage made in heaven. This Safari takes in the resorts of Kicking Horse, Revelstoke, Lake Louise and Banff. As one of British Columbia’s most unique ski resorts, Kicking Horse has some incredible terrain that will test even the most committed skiers and boarders to their limits.  Meanwhile Revelstoke is one of the only resorts in the world where you can lift-ski, cat-ski and heli-ski from the same base area and boasts some of the best tree skiing and awesome steeps. With its spectacular scenery, perfectly groomed pistes and variety of terrain, complete your honeymoon with a classic town stay in Banff or Lake Louise.

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How much?

A 14 night Ski Safari starts from £1449 per person based on 2 adults, including accommodation, direct flights and hire of an SUV. To upgrade to – luxury hotels, starts from £2169 per person staying at the 4+ Copper Horse Lodge in Kicking Horse, the 4+ Sutton Place in Revelstoke and the 5* Fairmont Chateau Lake Louise. Call Ski Safari on 01273 224 060 or visit


If you’ve lived together for some time and have all the pots and pans you need then why not consider setting up a Honeyfund as an alternative wedding gift list so your guests can kindly contribute to your honeymoon? Simply click on the link to wedding website, Honeyfund, and follow the steps to publish your very own Ski Safari honeymoon gift list website: 


The company featured here today is just up the road from me in Cowfold, in the heart of West Sussex and they make traditional jams, jellies, chutneys and sweet treats. No preservatives, food colouring or artificial additives are used in their products.

Cow Bell Pantry offers a selection of delicious preserves and sweet treats that are perfect for gifts, special occasions or just for you. Our lovingly homemade traditional jams, jellies, chutneys and sweets are made by hand in our kitchen in the heart of West Sussex. Ingredients are sourced locally and we specialise is using seasonal produce.


We also tailor make gift bags and hampers to suit any occasion and recipient. Alongside of this we have now started offering a wedding favour service. We work with the bride and groom to create delicious and beautifully presented favours for the guests on their big day.


Mini jars of preserves can be made for up to 100 guests or small boxes of sweets can be made for up to 60 guests.


Please email  for further information, our stock list or for a wedding favour quote. You can also visit our website  and find us on Facebook.

I am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever situation I may find myself. For I have learned that the greater part of our misery or unhappiness is determined not by our circumstance but by our disposition.

Martha Washington

I adore Greece, in fact a friend and I are now in the habit of trying a different island each year. Each island is different from the last but one thing that is common to all is the friendliness of the Greek people. When I worked for a travel agency quite a few years ago I was lucky enough to go on a trip with a tour operator to Lefkas and Kephalonia, both of which were stunningly beautiful. I’m very pleased to share with you today Book on in Lefkada, with some gorgeous photos to whet your appitite!

Lefkada (Lefkas) lies shimmering like an emerald jewel in the clear, turquoise Ionian seas off the western coast off Greece. Dotted with tranquil, romantic villages, with a wealth of history and some of the most beautiful beaches in the world.

ImageLefkada is truly a hidden gem making it the new ‘must go to’ destination for your wedding nuptials or honeymoon.


Once a hidden hide away reserved for royalty, celebrities and the glitterati including Aristotle Onassis, Jackie Kennedy, Maria Callas, Bill Gates, Giorgio Armani and Prince Albert of Monaco, over recent years Lefkada’s popularity has grown.

ImageLefkada’s beaches are regularly featured on the top 25 in the world. It has renowned watersports, yacht charters, stunning inland walks, magical waterfalls and villages full of character.This and its delicious Greek cuisine and stunning nightlife… Lefkada is indeed the ultimatedestination for couples and guests looking for the ultimate getaway destination.


Camille Grammer, American Television Personality, Star of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, recently visited Lefkada and told Book On In Lefkada “I plan on going every year it’s so magical. We enjoyed every second of our time in Lefkada and hope to stay longer next time. Porto Katsiki was just AMAZING… The beach, the views, the colors were out of this world”…


For more information you can contact Book On In Lefkada via their website, find them on Facebook, and follow them on Twitter.

Italy has got to be one of the most romantic destinations in the world, in fact it’s where Mr Lilguys and I got engaged, in a quaint and rather eccentric hotel in Lucca at the end of a wonderful 10 day holiday driving around Tuscany using satnav with a warped sense of humour!

Whatever the style of wedding you are looking to have, Wed in Italy can help you out.

Raffaella Alflatt founded the company ‘WedinItaly’, with one purpose: to grant couples their wish of having the perfect destination wedding in Italy.

So..What is the wedding of your dreams?


Vintage Wedding in Tuscany

Maybe it’s a blow-out party with friends gathering from all over the world, where the Champagne runs like water and there’s dancing under the stars until they disappear behind the dawn.

Could it be at a cliffside villa overlooking the Mediterranean, or a medieval Castle in the Tuscan hills?


Amalfi Coast Wedding


Wedding at Vincigliata Castle

Or do you prefer the romantic atmosphere or Rome or Venice?


Wedding in Rome

Or it could be an intimate gathering of your nearest and dearest that lasts for days amidst new experiences in a stunning destination on Lake Como or Amalfi coast?


Lake Como Wedding

Perhaps it’s somewhere in between; a mix of raucous times and special memories that last a lifetime.
We have created unforgettable events in the Italy’s most stunning destinations for satisfied clients from many different cultures.

Hindi Wedding in Italy

Each event is personally designed and overseen by Rome born event manager Raffaella Alflatt, whether it is in design, organisation, venues selection, location scouting, F&B, guests hospitality, hotel accommodations, service staffing and more. With us you benefit from the expertise of our professional team based in London, Rome and now also in Germany.


Wedding at Villa Aurelia

Our planners guarantee a complete assistance from the very early stage of your wedding planning process and until you leave the country for your new life together!

Raffaella Alflatt : ‘Since 2004, we’ve guided newlyweds through every step of planning a wedding in Italy to ensure that when they arrive for their nuptials, everything is ready and waiting for them to say, “I do.” From the shores of Lake Como to a cliffside terrace on the Amalfi coast to a 16th-century villa nestled in the hills just outside Florence, we’ve had the pleasure of welcoming scores of luxury wedding parties to some of the most stunning locations in Il Bel Paese.’

We’d love to help you make your wedding in Italy extraordinarily magical and purely unforgettable!


Our team have been managing weddings and events for many years and your event is our passion.
We place great emphasis on providing the highest quality customer service, achieving this with a flexible and friendly approach to our customers’ needs.

Our team work with passion, providing both a positive attitude and professional approach.

We believe in creating weddings that express your individual style and personality, hence getting to know you as individuals is crucial to reflect your vision as a couple at your wedding.
We strive to cater for every small detail that best reflect the couple and makes a noticeable difference between an ordinary wedding and your tailor made event.
Should you not be able to visit us in London, Rome or Florence for a private consultation, we are able, in certain instances, to travel to your residence for private and follow-up consultations.

You can contact Wed In Italy via the website, find them on Facebook where there are lots more gorgeous photos to feast your eyes on, and follow them on Twitter.

If you’re looking for something a little different for the men in the bridal party on your wedding day, this could be just the thing for you, combining a boutonniere with a gift.

Boutonnière of London offers grooms and their groomsmen a unique and individual handmade porcelain buttonhole, designed not only to complement their outfits on their wedding day, but also as a special keepsake to be appreciated and worn afterwards, whether to dinner, the races or even as a chic daily accessory.


The buttonholes are based on a very beautiful camellia from the Yorkshire Sculpture Park, with the flower being handmade in Italy to a bespoke design from fine capodimonte porcelain.  Each camellia or rose exhibits fine detailing on the petals and the collection is available in classic ivory (the natural porcelain colour) or blush pink colours.

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boutonniere Silver Pink top A4

The clasp on the back of the flower, which is also a bespoke design by Boutonniere, is designed to hold the lapel firmly without piercing the fabric, but is also discreet enough so that only the flower can be seen when worn.  The clasp, handmade in Sheffield by a company of cutlers, is available in either a highly polished stainless steel or 925 sterling silver and each Boutonniere is packaged in an individual bespoke presentation box, making it the perfect gift.

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Boutonnière of London was established in 2013 by Christopher Harrap, a Yorkshireman turned Londoner who left the corporate world to pursue his idea to combine chic handmade buttonhole accessories with a beautiful gift for grooms and their groomsmen. With a real passion for design, tailoring and craftsmanship, Christopher sourced the very best materials and artisans to turn this concept into reality, having with the entire item handmade in Italy and Sheffield, before being assembled and finished in London.
Christopher said: ‘”The collection offers something a touch different for the whole wedding party. We have worked hard to create a buttonhole for the groom, groomsmen, father of the bride and father of the groom, which is designed to be a perfect keepsake.  We offer a full engraving service to make the gift more personal, which is popular with clients, who have the back of the clasp engraved with the wedding date, their initials or even a personal message for each person. It can also make a perfect wedding day gift from the bride to her husband-to-be that is chic, original and special.”

You can contact Boutonniere via their website and you can find them on Facebook and follow them on Twitter.

Everyone has different ideas when it comes to the perfect wedding dress, so if you’re beginning your search or know that you want a short dress, this book is just right for you.

In addition To Celebrate the Launch of The Short Wedding Dress Book by Tobi Hannah, one lucky reader will have the choice of a short wedding dress from Tobi Hannah’s Wall Collection or The Golden Wings Hat by award-winning hat designer, Awon Golding who is featured in Chapter 10 of the book. 

Renowned British Designer, Tobi Hannah has written the first book on short wedding dresses ever published.


Tobi Hannah is the authority when it comes to well-crafted short wedding dresses. After many years of dressing short wedding dress brides, she decided it was time to share her knowledge about this amazing world she has entered into – one that is filled with individuality, creativity and passion.

Tobi Hannah’s first book ‘The Short Wedding Dress: The Dress, The Bride, the Style’ was released on the 1st of November 2013.

The book gives an enjoyable insight into short wedding dresses from earliest times to the present day. It has everything that needs to be known about the short wedding dress including its history, shapes and silhouettes, advice on choosing a short wedding dress, iconic short wedding dresses and tons of inspiring photos from short wedding dress brides.

With meticulous detail and in full colour, Tobi Hannah’s book is a glorious tribute to a stylish and unique wedding dress that is loved and admired by many.

Tobi Hannah’s hardcover short wedding dress book can be purchased exclusively through  and is available for delivery worldwide.

You can find Tobi Hannah on Facebook and on Twitter